6. MOULD YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS INTO RESILIENCE.
One should not be complacent to their thoughts and let their thoughts overtake the logical thinking.
We are slave to our mind.Actually - the servant has to remain servant and master remains as master.
One should not give up to his / her thoughts or to the illusions their thinking process / Cognition creates.
(Matter taken from online research)
Cognitive restructuring is a group of therapeutic techniques that help people notice and change their negative thinking patterns. When thought patterns become destructive and self-defeating, it's a good idea to explore ways to interrupt and redirect them.
IN ORDER TO MARCH FORWARD FOR COGNITIVE RESTRUCTURING, we must first understand the Cognitive Distortions. The Cognitive Treatment for Cognitive Distortion can be performed considering the following Instances about our Emotions, Thought and Behaviour.
Emotions, Thoughts, Behaviour are the three interrelated pillars behind our Cognitive Behaviour.
Emotions - What we feel (emotions) : affects what we think (Thoughts) and what we do (Behaviour)
Thoughts - What we think (thoughts) : affect how we feel (emotions) and what we do (behaviour)
Behaviour - What we do (behaviour) : affects how we feel (emotions) and what we think (thoughts)
So we noticed that the three aspects are interrelated and interconnected in our Cognitive Behaviour. According to the famous Psychologist Aaron Beck's Cognitive Therapy :
1. Negative Views about oneself - “ I am worthless”
2. Negative Views about the world - “ Everybody hates me because I am worthless”
3. Negative Views about eh future - :I will never be good at anything because everyone hates me”
COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS
One STRONG Reason for COGNITIVE DISTORTION is DEPRESSION - That is the top reason (as defined by WHO) behind HUMAN SUFFERING(Below matter taken from online research)
Let’s review some common cognitive distortion examples. You might see your own thought patterns reflected here, or they may describe someone you know.
1. Engaging in CATASTROPHIC THINKING
You to expect the worst outcome in any situation. You often find yourself thinking, “What if…?” If your child misses curfew, you imagine he’s been in a car accident.
If your boss schedules a meeting, you worry you’ll be fired. And your thinking spirals from there: You may think of losing your child. Getting fired means you’ll become homeless.
2. DISCOUNTING the POSITIVE
When something goes right — say you get a promotion — you acknowledge it but refuse to take credit. Instead, you chalk it up to dumb luck or a mistake. Or, you receive many positive comments on an evaluation, but choose to focus on a single piece of negative feedback.
EMOTIONAL REASONING
4. Labeling / mislabeling
You often define yourself and others with negative labels. In assigning labels, you focus on one past behavior or event. Your co-worker is “lazy” because they came to work late. You’re “stupid” because you failed the math test.
5. MENTAL FILTERING
You view yourself, your life, and your future through a negative lens. You ignore anything positive. Filtering can increase feelings of hopelessness and helplessness.
6. JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS
You base your decisions not on what someone says or does, but on what you believe they’re thinking. You believe you can read minds or anticipate reactions. You don’t ask what the other person thinks or feels.
Fortune-telling is another form of cognitive distortion related to jumping to conclusions. You insist you can predict the future, regardless of what you do. You’ll be famous without putting in the hard work. Or you’ll always be a failure, so hard work is a waste of time.
7. OVERGENERALIZATION
As a result, you might conclude you should never date again.
8. PERSONALISATION
If people often tell you, “stop taking this so personally,” then you likely experience personalization. You blame yourself for things outside of your control.
You falsely believe that everything that someone says or does is a direct reaction to you.
Personalization can convince you that you are being targeted or excluded. It can also cause you to compare yourself to others.
9. POLARIZED or BLACK AND WHITE thinking
This kind of thinking deals in extremes. People and situations are either great or terrible.
You believe you’re either destined for success or failure. You don’t allow room for balanced perspectives or outcomes.
10. “SHOULD” statements
Constantly blaming yourself or others for what “should” have been said or done (but wasn’t) can increase stress and anxiety.
You will never be happy if you always focus on what “should” have been.
Latika Goel
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